A Forever Family

A Forever Family

Monday, 30 July 2012

Camping




This weekend Cole and I were able to leave K with Grandma and go camping all by ourselves.  We went to Stamp Falls and got to listen to the river all night.  Delightful.  On Saturday we spent the day at Sproat Lake.  Probably one of the nicest lakes I've swam in...ever.  It was interesting going back to the little tent after camping all summer in our new monster tent.  It was wonderful being able to choose when we got up based on only us. 

There is something so satisfying about camping.  Leaving behind the excess of the modern life and getting back to basics.  The stresses of life seem to fall away- nothing so complicated can exist while camping.  I LOVE it!

Wednesday, 25 July 2012

Holy Batman, He Forgot the Baby!

Our generous friends babysat K last night so Cole and I could go see The Dark Knight Rises.  As usual with this series, it didn't disappoint.  I think The Dark Knight is still my favourite one though- who can beat Heath Ledger as the Joker? Theatre was packed- half price Tuesday- it was expected.  Of course Cole sat us in the exact middle, so I soon felt trapped and like I was suddently pregnant again and needed to pee every five minutes.  Mind tricks- as soon as you're blocked in, your bladder has a holding capacity of a pregnant lady but if the theatre was empty I probably would have been fine.  I went twice before the movie started to try and avoid the awkward climb over people situation in the middle of the movie- although still had to anyways.  I stood in the back of the theatre for the last 20 minutes after my pee break so I didn't have to disturb everyone all over again.  After climbing over them twice before the movie started and once during it, I wasn't about to go back during the climax and climb all over again.

On the way home, Cole was so enthralled with the movie that he drove by the babysitter's place as if to just go home.  He forgot about our daughter.  If that's not a film recommendation for you men out there, I'm not sure what is. 

Also, one of the times I was up to go to the bathroom before the movie started, I walked by this lady with her TINY TINY baby.  I had to stop and talk to her- it was TINY.  Apparently her daughter had been born 10 weeks early at 2 lbs.  She was now 8 weeks old and still looked so little (no big surprise, she's still 2 weeks early at this point).  How amazing that the will to fight to live is alive even in a 2 lb person.  Incredible. 

Thursday, 12 July 2012

Salad Week

I decided this week to try out four different entree salads.  The summer heat has hit and I wanted a break from slaving in front of the stove.  If you'd like to try them yourself, find the "recipes" here.

Day 1: A salad inspired by one brought by my friend last week at a dinner party.  Loved it!


 Day 2: Taco salad- a classic that I slightly change on a regular basis.  Fed me for lunch for 2 days after as well!


Day 3: A salad I make a lot in the summer seasons but this time I added some prawns to make it a main.  The carmelized onion and feta cheese crostini were so decilious I planned to make them the next night as well but got so busy we didn't even eat till after 9 so they were left out.  So so delicious.


Day 4: Steak salad.  I tried out a chimichurri sauce for the first time ever and thinned it out a bit with more oil so it could be a salad dressing.  I find it an AWESOME steak condiment but too bracing to be a full dressing on a sald this size. 

Who wouldn't want to eat salad all week when they are as awesome as these?

Thursday, 5 July 2012

Summer!

Summer is here! FINALLY! Our first summer activity was playing at the spray park.  K can cruise now so I spent the afternoon chasing after her as she checked it all out.  At one point I stayed behind her for a while to see if she'd ever look for me.  She didn't. 

It's hard to get good pictures or videos of her now that she's really on the move, so this is all I've got.

 
I love her new crab swimsuit

I think it's adorable that water shoes come this small

one of the only pictures where she's looking at me

running away

taking a break from the spray park

running amok with our garbage....


She really enjoyed herself and I love that the waterpark is fenced in and it's level so it's easy for K to run around.  Whenever we went back to the grass she fell every step or so cause of all the little hills.  It was pretty funny.  She was super friendly and loved seeing all the kids- unfortunately, the other kids mostly find her to be an annoying baby in the way.  I had to steer her away from the big kid water fights so she didn't get trampled.  One time, this little boy (I'd say 3 or 4) barged in on K's fun with a sprinkler and kept running to the ones K was going for so he could stand on them so she couldn't get them.  K was a pretty good sport- even when the little boy walked up to her (she wasn't even in his "bubble"), put his hands on her face and pushed her down.

All in all, a pretty good day.  It will be repeated many times again, I'm sure.

Click HERE for the video of her running through the spray park (pretty good for an almost 10 month old if I do say so myself).

Dressing Room Tears

Shortly after giving birth I went clothes shopping to find some things to get me through till I lost more baby weight.  It was disheartening and depressing and difficult.  Almost enough to make me break down in tears in the dressing room- but I have a fairly strict no crying in public policy so I didn't.

The weight loss has been slow and unfortunately, the weight I gained after getting married due to some pretty stressful situations has been the most difficult weight to lose.  Pretty much all of the baby fat is gone now, it's the extra stuff I'm working on.  I've been working (pretty) hard at it lately, and I am seeing some positive results.  I'm using Jillian Michael's 30 Day Shred and I love/hate it.  I love it because it's short and I can feel myself getting stronger.  I hate it because it's intense and hard and sometimes she's annoying.  I blast music so I don't hear her and just grit through it till the end- I mean it's only 20 minutes, but it's a hard 20 minutes.  I definitely feel stronger and like my body is starting to feel more like it's supposed to. 

I have boycotted scales for a long time now- mostly because I don't think the numbers do anything other than make me feel bad.  I go with how I feel, how I look and how my clothes fit.  I went shopping again the other day to pick up some summer stuff and was happy to see that I was another size down from just a few months ago.  It was almost enough to make me cry in the dressing room- but this time out of joy.

(Now that I've posted this I fear I will be scrutinized and checked out to see if in fact I am losing weight.  Resist!)


Tuesday, 26 June 2012

Squash and Finger Chips

Saturday night I was slicing yellow zucchini squash on a mandalin in order to make baked squash chips. Squash slipped, finger got sliced instead.  It took off the tip of my right index finger up to the nail (not including it).  Lots of blood.  Cole insisted we go to the emergency room.  They said nothing to be done but wrap it up and wait.  It's all skin so it should all grow back fine.  Got an updated tetnus shot.  Now I'm just waiting for my finger to heal and for my arm to stop hurting.  The site of the shot has gone a bit red, very sore and a little swollen.  I'm told this is normal.

I cook 6-7 days/week and have only had to go the emergency room twice for serious cooking injuries.  Not bad, right?  Cole says I should just use the guard on the sharp tools I have.  You can imagine what I say.

Tried to take a picture of my finger- none of them turned out well.

Wednesday, 20 June 2012

Walking Distance

I've often thought about the term "walking distance".  It seems to be relative to the person using it.  To one person it may mean 5 minutes, to another it may mean 5 hours.  In North America, I think we have become so handicapped by our cars that walking distance means almost nothing to most people now.  In many other parts of the world, walking is still a main source of transportation..or the only source.  We drive to the gym to run on a treadmill, we drive to the corner store, we drive everywhere.  Part of the problem is that our own personal world has expanded so much living in the industrialized world.  Most things aren't walking distance, so we've just started driving everywhere. It can be hard, even if you do want to walk, to find routes that are pedestrian friendly, even in a place like Vancouver Island. 

I spent a month in Europe in the summer of 2006 walking.  A friend and I camped and hiked and then camped and then hiked.  I spent my whole day walking.  I walked through the French Alps all the way to the Swiss border.  It's changed my outlook on what is "walking distance", or even "walking weather".  Anytime someone (even me) thinks something is a little too far to walk, I look back to the Alps and think "it's not as far as it is to walk from France to Switzerland" and then the distance immediately becomes nothing. 






While I was in Europe, I read "A Walk in the Woods" by Bill Bryson (twice...I only had one book) and it's become one of my favourites and I don't even really know why.  It's not superb literature and it's about a guy walking the Appalachian Trail for 400 pages, but I LOVE it.  It's like that movie that everyone has that is their favourite and it's almost a guilty pleasure because on paper it sounds stupid that it's your favourite.  People who read also have a book like that- this is mine.  It's a travel fiction and it's about the author's experience undertaking the Appalachian Trail.  He's so funny and his writing style just sweeps me up and makes me wish I could stay there forever.  I've read it probably four times, which seems ridiculous for this kind of book.  But I can relate. 

Here are some of my favourite quotes from it regarding "walking distance":

(pg183-4) "Now here's a thought to consider.  Every twenty minutes on the Appalachian Trail, Katz and I walked farther than the average American walks in a week. For 93 percent of all trips outside the home, for whatever distance or whatever purpose, Americans now get in a car.  On average, the total walking of an American these days-that's walking of all types: from car to office, from office to car, around the supermarket and shopping malls-adds up to 1.4 miles a week, barely 350 yards a day.  That's ridiculous. ... I know a woman who gets in her car to go a quarter of a mile to a college gymnasium to walk on a treadmill, then complains passionately about the difficulty of finding a parking space.  When I asked her once why she didn't walk to the gym and do five minutes less on the treadmill, she looked at me as if I were being willfully provocative.  'Because I have a program for the treadmill,' she expained. 'It records my distance and speed, and I can adjust it for degree of difficulty.' It hadn't occured to me how thoughtlessly deficient nature is in this regard."



(pg185) "A man outside the post office suggested I try Kmart. 'Where's your car?' he said, preparatory to giving me directions. 'I don't have a car.' That stopped him. 'Really? It's over a mile, I'm afraid.' 'That's ok.' He gave his head a little dubious shake, as if disowning responsibility for what he was about to tell me.  'Well then what you want to do is go up Broad Street, take a right at the Burger King, and keep on going.  But, you know, when I think about it, it's well over a mile- maybe a mile and a half, mile and three quarters. You walking back as well?' 'Yeah.' Another shake. 'Long way.' 'I'll take emergency provisions.'"

I am grateful for the use of my legs and the ability to walk as long and as far as I want.