A Forever Family

A Forever Family

Monday, 16 June 2014

Another First Birthday

My baby is one....I have been in denial for a while that this was coming.  I still don't acknowledge it if I can avoid it.  I didn't have any problems with K turning 1, but I've been a bit of an emotional wreck around B's first birthday.  It just went by so fast, I didn't feel prepared for her to already be one.  I feel a lot different this time around.  I feel more tired, less on top of things, and I definitely don't feel ready for another baby.  When K was turning one, I was getting pregnant with B.  I certainly don't feel that way now.  I'm so glad I felt it back then and had B so close to K.  I love, everyday, watching them grow closer and learning to play and love each other.  And that totally feels like enough right now.  I don't feel back to normal yet.  With only one baby, and an easy baby at that, I was feeling really good around this mark.  Right now, I still feel like we're at six months.  I'm still laying down most afternoons when B goes down for her nap.  I'm still nursing, too.  It's just all different this time and she still feels so much like a baby to me. 

My mom, dad and two of my sisters came to celebrate with us.  We had a nice Mexican(ish) feast and angel food cake, berries and whipped cream for dessert.  B (and K) loved the presents: a car to ride around the deck and a little zebra, musical toy that can be switched from a sit and ride, to a walk and push, to a stand and scoot. (Present videos found HERE and HERE and HERE). B, and especially K, loved having grandparents and aunts give all kinds of attention.  K kept saying "my family"- she thinks it only refers to extended family.  She still doesn't believe Cole, B and I are her family, too.  She threw a fit when they left. 

I am so happy to have B in my life.  It has been a much different experience parenting her- I love that she is so different from her sister.  She is an extrovert: she lives life (so far) with all her emotions blazing, she isn't afraid to get messy and really experience her surroundings.  She loves and laughs and cries so hard- sometimes so hard that her body can't seem to contain it.  She chases after both Cole and I (and K) for cuddles everyday.  She loves to touch and kiss and snuggle.  She is our silly daughter, and is always trying to make us laugh.  She is an eating machine and often eats 3 times what K does at meal times.  She loves her sister so much and copies everything she sees.  She wants to do everything K does and gets instantly jealous if she's left out.  She is fearless in her emotional expression and that is something that is so different from K and I.  I know she will be so good for our family in the future because she is already showing us how to love better.

We love you so much B! Happy Birthday!

Aunty Alexis (K calls her "Egsis")

Aunty Tanya ("my Tana")

Grandpa

Grandma and Grandpa

Mommy and her baby

checking out the new car

B in the driver's seat

upset that K was taking a turn in the car

love her cry face

funny face

Zebra scooter


taking a ride

"check out my sweet ride"

proud parents

birthday cake and 1 candle

....not her first piece of cake- she didn't make it to a year

digging in

exhausted

out cold

Camping, Take 1: Tofino

We were so excited to reach camping season this year! Last year we didn't go at all because I was recovering from a C-section and we had a new born and a not-even-two year old.  We decided to start our season off by going to Tofino.  We figured that any hiccups could be solved by sandy beaches and Tacofino. 

We camped at the Long Beach Campground right off the golf course.  The campground looked nice but upon closer inspection, we cannot in good conscience recommend anyone go here.  This was not a new campground, and yet there was only one bathroom and it was at the front office.  There were no outhouses or anything amongst all the campsites.  That meant that our campsite was far enough away that if our 2 year old had an emergency, we were too far to walk and not have an accident.  So we actually ended up driving to the bathroom a lot.  It was ridiculous.  Also, there was a lot of garbage in the surrounding bushes and even in some of the sites.  The owners obviously don't care very much about their grounds so I would recommend finding a different place.  The only good thing was that because it wasn't BC Parks, there was a nice soft ground to peg the tent into- not like the gravel that is often in BC Park campgrounds. 

Like I said, this was our first camp trip as a family of four, and our first camp trip in 2 years so we were a little rusty.  We forgot all the things we said we needed to remember 2 years ago- like the big broom so I wouldn't have to crawl around sweeping out the tent.  K couldn't remember ever camping, so it seemed brand new to her.  She was soo excited she couldn't contain herself.  She was just bursting with enthusiasm.  Let me tell you -- that got old...fast! She didn't stay cute-excited very long; pretty quickly it turned into the annoying-crying-I'm-just-going-to-die-if-we-don't-do-everything-right-now kind of excited. 

After we got set up, we took the girls to the beach for a bit before dinner.  They loved the sandy beaches and crashing waves.  Both girls immediately ran into them.  Poor B wiped out her first day and was hesitant in the water for the rest of the weekend (video HERE).  We had great weather and soaked up every bit of Tofino beach goodness.  That night we relaxed around camp, introduced K to her first (in memory) campfire and s'more and attempted our first night in the tent together with two kids.  K got her very own sleeping pad and sleeping bag and thought it was so cool.  B slept in the play pen.  Our bed was particularly comfortable this year with our new thick, warm, heavenly double sleeping bag.  I don't know what it is, but I have never been so comfortable camping! 

The night was less than ideal.  K slept fairly soundly, although she did keep trying to get out of her sleeping bag (not knowingly, but I still had to wrestle with her because it was too cold for her to be rolling around the tent without it).  B was the real treat: she was up several times.  Cole and I were so tired and getting up out of a warm bed while camping is almost worse than getting up out of bed at home.  The night before camping the girls slept horribly so we were already tired and the lack of sleep in the tent was not helping our moods.  I think B may have been a tad cold.  Her head is not as full of hair as K so I think it was getting cold.  She was also getting over a yeast rash, and that was probably not helping.  Unfortunately, on top of everything else, they got up with the sun.  K was still so excited, she didn't want to remain in the tent, even though I brought toys to keep them occupied in the early morning so we wouldn't have to rush out of the tent.  It was a big struggle to keep K in the tent and eventually we all got up for breakfast.  We were feeling like maybe camping was not our favourite thing anymore and felt really disappointed.  Cole even threw a muffin angrily in the fire and said we should go home.  (He's a peach without proper sleep). 

We persevered.  We headed out for lunch later that day, and the girls fell asleep in the car during the 8 minute drive to the Tacofino truck.  We decided to leave them sleeping and go get and eat lunch by ourselves (the taco truck is in a parking lot- so we could see the van the whole time). Wonderful, delicious Tacofino.  We were there during a professional surfing competition (on purpose- we like to watch) but this meant that the lunch line was longer than usual.  Probably took 40 minutes for us to get our food.  You know it's good when everyone is willing to pleasantly wait.  I've written about Tacofino before so I won't go into this time.  Suffice it to say, it was heavenly- and totally deserved after that terrible night.  I never take pictures of it because I'm too busy enjoying it.

The girls woke up, and we drove to Chesterman Beach.  It's outside Pacific Rim National Park so it does not incur the visitor's fee.  We had a lovely afternoon of sand and surf.  As always, the crows were ready to attack your picnic site as soon as you leave, no matter how well you've covered things.  Also, too bad I didn't get a picture of it, but Cole came prepared this season with a great little utility wagon to pull all the beach stuff, and B fit perfectly in the front.  Everyone we passed stopped and admired the cute baby in the wagon full of beach chairs, a cooler and toys.  It was seriously precious.

That night, things started to calm down.  The day at the beach seemed to cure everyone's bad moods.  Even K seemed calmer.  We put the girls to bed a little earlier, K even turned down her s'more.  Cole and I were so exhausted we didn't stay up much at all, we headed to bed pretty soon after the girls.  But everyone slept blissfully well.  B didn't make a sound, K stayed in her sleeping bag.  I added a sweater with a hood to B's PJs and that seemed to do the trick.  The day at the beach probably didn't hurt.  We slept so well, we all slept in (of course on the day we need to pack up). 

Packing up took longer than expected.  But thankfully we were one of the only ones camping so checking out late went completely unnoticed.  We survived our camping trip- and mostly it was a good experience.  It was a great trial run and the magic of Tofino softened whatever grumpiness resulted from the learning curve.  We made a list of what worked and what didn't and were determined that our next camping trip, in two weeks, would be much smoother.  I also hoped that it was soon enough, K would remember what camping was and be less wound up because it wouldn't be new anymore.  We spent the afternoon at the beach watching some of the finals of the Rip Curl Surf Competition, enjoyed one more meal of Tacofino and then drove home, the girls asleep most of the way back. 


had to be jailed in the play pen while camp was being set up

K helping daddy with the tent

had a huge fascination with the van all weekend-
here she managed to unlock the door all by herself

all ready!

she loved toddling around in the tent

the kids side

mom and dad's side

our handy dandy gazebo in front of our tent

fire pit, table and cooking station

riding bikes and soccer

Paradise!

lots of wind makes for great waves

loves the beach!

following daddy into the surf

K got to stay up to make a s'more

roasting the 'mallow

big bite

loved her "fire treat"


Thursday, 15 May 2014

A Summer's Day in May

Looks like summer to me!

Yesterday it got up to 27 degrees.  It was crazy- on May 14th! I'm not one who enjoys being hot, so I decided I was going to keep going all day.  I knew if I stopped, the heat would win and I would collapse on the couch and never get up.

First thing in the morning, we headed to Departure Bay Beach and played for a couple hours: collecting rocks, eating sand and running around.  It's a nice easy (as easy as anything can be pushing 2 kids), downhill, ocean-view walk from our house- less than a half hour. 


K has started saying "cheese" during pictures
(has made taking pictures of her much easier)

dressed like it's summer

hunting for rocks to throw into the ocean

trying the local cuisine



B trying to help

she understood the concept of putting things INTO the bucket

always eating her surroundings

K gearing up to throw a rock

It was so hot in the middle of the day, we spent the time at home.  The girls cooled off in the pool and I tidied up, worked out and made dinner.  The girls LOVED the little pool and spent lots of time in it.  Once B figured out how to get out, she spent most of the time hopping in and out of the pool over and over.  See video HERE.  I also finally took a video of her walking.  She took her first steps at 10 months and now at 11 months she walking all over the place.  Video HERE.





And just to make the day a little busier, we dried off, reapplied sunscreen (for like the fourth time), climbed back into the jogger, and headed off to Beban to check out the Farmer's Market and play at the park.  I planned both walks (to the beach and to the park) to coincide with Cole getting off a shift so he could pick us up, that way I only had to walk one way. 

didn't make it to the park

this one could go all day

Needless to say, I was exhausted by the end of the day.  The girls weren't as tired as I had hoped.  K did pass out at noon in the car on the way home from the beach.  I thought that was a good sign but she still wanted more pool time after dinner.  B decided to end our day with a pool poop explosion so Cole got to hose down the pool and deck and I got to bathe the girls.  Not the end of the day I had been looking for, but what are you going to do?  K fell asleep almost right away but B was up crying for a good portion of the evening.  I ended up sitting on the couch nursing her for a good hour before I went to bed.  But that seemed to do it.  When I put her back to bed at 11pm, she was out till almost 8am- no sounds.  Thank goodness!! I definitely needed the sleep.

Tuesday, 13 May 2014

Mother's Day

My first Mother's Day as a mom of two.  I don't know about you, but I want for Mother's Day is to be the secondary caregiver (or no caregiver)....and I can't be the only one, right? Cole took the girls on Saturday to run errands while I went shopping for some summer stuff and a new Mother's Day outfit for church.  Shopping is by no means by favourite pass time, but anything without toddlers is enjoyable.  On Sunday, he got the girls ready for church and made me breakfast.  K coloured me a card but then took it back later that day thinking it was hers to keep colouring on.  I even managed to get a couple decent pictures with the girls before we left.





Cole also occupied both girls during third block so I could attend Relief Society in peace.  Lately K has been rejecting Nursery- not sure what that's about- so Cole had to spend the last hour in Nursery with both girls.  I was left alone that afternoon for quiet time/nap time and was able to read, write in my journal, talk to my mom and have a small nap.  It was lovely.  While I did that, Cole put away some laundry, cleaned up the mess the kids had made so far and when I got up he made dinner.

He always makes dinner on Mother's Day but this year he made and extra special effort to serve me something really nice that I would appreciate.  He grilled some flank steak and veggies and made fajitas.  He even made me pico de gallo.  Very sweet.  Very tasty.  We walked (K rode her bike) the girls to the park after dinner and played till bedtime (their bedtime).  Then Cole and I watched and movie and went to bed.  The girls' present to me that night was sleeping through the night.  We didn't hear anything from them till 7am the next morning.  Awesome present!





Friday, 25 April 2014

Easter

As Cole and I were away for most of the weekend in Seattle, our Easter consisted of dinner at my grandma's on Sunday night and an Easter Egg hunt on Monday morning.  K did well collecting her eggs and was very good about sharing with her sister and leaving some for her to find.  B found a few eggs and enjoyed the excitement. 

Find videos here, here, here and here.




Thankfully, they are too young to know mommy and daddy abandoned them this holiday.  At least it wasn't Christmas :p